Psychologists Define Limerence as Obsessive Infatuation Affecting Up to 50% of People
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Updated · The New York Times · Jul 9
Psychologists Define Limerence as Obsessive Infatuation Affecting Up to 50% of People
2 articles · Updated · The New York Times · Jul 9
Summary
Up to 50% of people may experience limerence at least once, psychologists say, describing it as obsessive romantic infatuation rather than love.
The state involves intrusive thoughts, compulsive behaviors and a strong need for emotional reciprocation, often centered on fantasy and uncertainty instead of a mutual bond.
Unlike a brief crush, limerence can last months, years or even decades, and becomes especially concerning when it disrupts sleep, eating or work.
Dorothy Tennov coined the term in the 1970s, but limerence is still not listed in the DSM, the main diagnostic manual used in research and clinical care.