Author's father relives traumatic childhood memory in dementia episode

3 articles · Updated · The New York Times · May 7

At 87, he was found sobbing at a kitchen table, believing he was again a six-year-old in 1941 losing his canary during a train transfer in Chicago.
The family had been leaving Pittsburgh for an Air Force base in San Antonio, and the bird escaped when the cage bottom fell out in the station's Great Hall.
The essay contrasts that vivid distress with the father's later career as a diplomat and adviser, illustrating how dementia can revive long-buried memories with immediate emotional force.

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