Michelle says father’s abandonment became a blessing
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Updated · The Washington Post · May 6
Michelle says father’s abandonment became a blessing
2 articles · Updated · The Washington Post · May 6
After her father died recently, Michelle said a three-hour final conversation two weeks before Mother’s Day deepened her gratitude for her grandmother, Big Mama, who raised five abandoned children.
She said archival reporting on a house fire and his later admission of drunkenness underscored his instability, while Big Mama taught strict saving, debt avoidance and homeownership.
Michelle credits those lessons for becoming a homeowner in her early 20s, helping send three children to college debt-free and shaping her long-running financial literacy work.
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