Article Compiles 67 Examples of Unsolicited Advice on Depression, Poverty and ADHD
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Updated · Bored Panda · Jul 19
Article Compiles 67 Examples of Unsolicited Advice on Depression, Poverty and ADHD
1 articles · Updated · Bored Panda · Jul 19
Summary
A new roundup highlights 67 social-media posts mocking unsolicited advice that reduces complex problems to lines like “just think positive,” “stop being poor” or “snap out of it.”
Therapists Elizabeth Seabolt-Esparza and Laurie Wilson say such comments often stem from low emotional intelligence, helplessness, ignorance, privilege or a desire to feel useful rather than outright malice.
The examples center on mental illness, chronic pain, finances and neurodivergence, showing how simplistic advice can leave people feeling dismissed, guilty or even more distressed.
Both experts say the better response is to listen first, avoid making the conversation about yourself, and check whether advice—especially religious advice—fits the person’s situation.