Updated
Updated · Forbes · Jul 10
Jeffrey Hall Puts 200+ Hours on Close Friendship as Americans With 10 Friends Fall to 13%
Updated
Updated · Forbes · Jul 10

Jeffrey Hall Puts 200+ Hours on Close Friendship as Americans With 10 Friends Fall to 13%

1 articles · Updated · Forbes · Jul 10

Summary

  • Hall’s University of Kansas research sets concrete friendship thresholds: about 50 hours for a casual friend, 90 for a genuine friendship and more than 200 for a close, lasting bond.
  • Those benchmarks matter more as retirement approaches because work’s built-in social structure disappears, and the report argues happiness in retirement often depends less on wealth than on community.
  • U.S. friendship data show the backdrop worsening: the share of Americans with 10 or more close friends fell to 13% in 2021 from 33% in 1990, while those with zero close friends rose to 12% from 3%.
  • Voluntary leisure time appears to build bonds faster than obligatory professional contact, leading the report to urge people in their 40s, 50s and 60s to join recurring activity-based groups before retiring.

Insights

As America's friendship deficit worsens, can our cities and towns be redesigned to cure loneliness?
Beyond finances, what 'core pursuits' best build the social wealth needed for a happy retirement?
If friendship requires a 200-hour investment, is it a genuine connection or a transaction?