Jessica DeFino Rejects $20,000 Bridal Beauty Pressures Ahead of Second Wedding
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Updated · The Guardian · Jul 8
Jessica DeFino Rejects $20,000 Bridal Beauty Pressures Ahead of Second Wedding
1 articles · Updated · The Guardian · Jul 8
Summary
October-bound bride Jessica DeFino says she is preparing for her second wedding by refusing the extreme dieting, cosmetic tweaks and punishing routines she followed before her first marriage nearly a decade ago.
Her rethink comes as bridal beauty pressure intensifies: Botox is now offered in some Nordstrom stores, Wegovy is being used for wedding weight loss, and social media is pushing brides toward thin, young and "glowing" ideals.
A recent Cut survey cited in the piece found more than 53% of respondents spent $1,000-$5,000 to look "effortless" on their wedding day, while just under 2% spent $20,000 or more and one bride paid $13,000 for a nose job.
DeFino says her new approach is "less augmentation, more decoration"—keeping her usual skincare, skipping manicures and body overhauls, and favoring expressive touches like blue eyeshadow, 1960s-style eyeliner and an ocean swim for her hair.
The broader point, she argues, is to remember the marriage rather than the body management behind the photos, resisting a wedding culture that turns beauty prep into a lasting memory of stress.