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Updated · Twisted Sifter · Jun 29
Teen Says Friend Ignored 17th Birthday at Sleepover, Bringing No Card or Gift
Updated
Updated · Twisted Sifter · Jun 29

Teen Says Friend Ignored 17th Birthday at Sleepover, Bringing No Card or Gift

2 articles · Updated · Twisted Sifter · Jun 29

Summary

  • A 17-year-old said a friend agreed to celebrate her birthday during a sleepover four days before the date, then arrived with no card, gift or acknowledgment.
  • That omission hit harder because the teen had explicitly asked to use the sleepover as their birthday celebration, expecting it to be their only chance to meet around the occasion.
  • The teen said the friend clearly remembered the birthday and had marked it in past years, making this year's lack of effort feel like a sign they had grown apart after high school.
  • Reddit responses split between calling the hurt understandable and saying expecting a gift was entitled, though several users said even a small gesture would have mattered more than the present itself.

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