Updated
Updated · bbc.co.uk · Jun 22
Belfast Couple Make 60 Friends in 6 Months by Hosting 10-Stranger Dinners
Updated
Updated · bbc.co.uk · Jun 22

Belfast Couple Make 60 Friends in 6 Months by Hosting 10-Stranger Dinners

2 articles · Updated · bbc.co.uk · Jun 22

Summary

  • Six dinners in, Vik Parashar and Nidhi Pal say opening their Belfast home to 10 strangers at a time has turned two isolated newcomers into hosts with 60 new friends.
  • After struggling for two years to build lasting connections after moving from India, they launched an Instagram page and used a questionnaire to curate guests they thought would mix well.
  • The sixth dinner came just days after anti-immigration protests and violent demonstrations in Northern Ireland, giving some guests—especially Indian students—a place they said felt safe and welcoming.
  • For the couple, the gatherings have shifted Belfast from a city where they knew nobody into one where they feel they belong, and they plan to keep hosting.

Insights

Is this couple's social experiment a new blueprint for fighting loneliness and xenophobia in other cities?
How does a simple dinner party become a powerful act of defiance against organized racist violence?