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Updated · The New York Times · Jun 22
Americans 65 and Up Defy Divorce Decline as Nearly 40% of Splits Hit Over-50s
Updated
Updated · The New York Times · Jun 22

Americans 65 and Up Defy Divorce Decline as Nearly 40% of Splits Hit Over-50s

1 articles · Updated · The New York Times · Jun 22

Summary

  • Divorce rates among Americans 65 and older remain elevated even as divorce has been falling across most other age groups, making older adults the main exception to the broader decline.
  • Nearly 40% of U.S. divorces now involve people 50 and older, after so-called gray divorce rates doubled between 1990 and 2010 and then stabilized after the pandemic.
  • Many of those breakups stem from "empty-shell marriages"—long unions that function more like roommate or co-parenting arrangements after children leave home—rather than a single acute rupture.
  • Longer life expectancy and a growing reluctance among baby boomers and some Gen Xers to spend another 20 to 40 years in unfulfilling marriages are helping keep late-life divorce rates high.

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