AskReddit Thread Lists 18 Things Men Were Told Made Them 'Gay' Amid 5,000 Replies
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Updated · PinkNews · Jun 17
AskReddit Thread Lists 18 Things Men Were Told Made Them 'Gay' Amid 5,000 Replies
2 articles · Updated · PinkNews · Jun 17
Summary
Nearly 5,000 replies to an AskReddit question surfaced 18 examples of men being called “gay” for ordinary habits, from drinking tea and using umbrellas to folding laundry and doing skincare.
The thread grew from a prompt about the dumbest thing people were told was “not manly,” turning into a catalogue of how homophobic stereotypes still police everyday male behavior.
Users described being mocked for owning cats, wearing flip-flops or winter coats, driving white cars, baking cookies, keeping houseplants, even having neat handwriting or sleeping on their stomachs.
The responses were framed as evidence that toxic masculinity and online “manosphere” attitudes continue to reinforce outdated ideas about masculinity well beyond childhood taunts.