Dear Abby Addresses 2 Reader Issues, Defends Service Dog Access Rights

2 articles · Updated · The Mercury News · Jun 14

Dear Abby told a reader upset by a partner of 16 years redirecting concern over her poor EKG results to his own cancer struggle that she was not being selfish.
Abby said the reader had reason to worry about her own health and her partner’s self-centeredness, urging a serious conversation and less dependence on him if support is lacking.
A second letter shifted to service dogs, with an advocate saying trained animals can detect glucose swings, seizures and other medical issues and are not ordinary pets.
The column said service dogs and dogs in training cannot be denied public access or charged pet fees, while handlers must keep them under control and the public should not distract or pet them.
Abby endorsed the guidance as a needed clarification, noting confusion persists because some owners falsely present pets as service animals.