Susan Gregor-Harlen Urges Couples to Tackle Money Tension Early, Citing 3 Warning Signs
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Updated · EWN · May 18
Susan Gregor-Harlen Urges Couples to Tackle Money Tension Early, Citing 3 Warning Signs
2 articles · Updated · EWN · May 18
Susan Gregor-Harlen said financial conflict in couples often signals deeper strain around communication, values and emotional needs, not just overspending.
Three recurring warning signs stood out in her CapeTalk interview: frequent online shopping, too many takeaways and one partner feeling the other is not taking the budget seriously.
Gregor-Harlen said money discussions can trigger feelings of inadequacy and reflect how people were raised, making budgeting disputes emotionally charged for many couples.
She urged partners to use practical systems to manage spending and to seek outside help when tension over money starts threatening the relationship.
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